Gold Coast, Australia
I call it the Cancun of down under….not to be missed if your in this part of the world!
It is what it is……
If there is one word that can bring world peace, what would it be?…….RESPECT.
We are all built to be curious and curiousity is a big part of what keeps us living. But sometimes there are things we just can’t understand and unfortunately we choose to judge which cause confuzement that can lead to HATE.
If we all respected each others decisions, cultures, religion and simply each others way of life, the world would run with understanding. I am not asking to simply turn a blind eye on ways that obviously hurt a person physically or emotionally but have your heart open to that person to reach out and don’t punish the person causing the pain but let the law deal with them and let your anger past. As individuals each of us has something that differentiate us from one another, we can’t help this but just imagine how we would feel if someone questions why?. It is what it is – be accepting, be accessible & BE RESPECTFUL.
Growing up with three brothers, made my views of the opposite sex different for me to your everyday female. I can say that sometimes, my boyish up bringing plays up handy in my relationships.
My favorite saying is BOYS are STUPID and GIRLS are DRAMA, including me of course in both of those verbs (HA!). It’s all proven science actually – called CHROMOSOMES & TESTOSTERONE, major factors why girls talk way more, which results to over thinking everything with high expectations from our beaus.
“Women have an eight-lane superhighway for processing emotion, while men have a small country road,” said Dr Brizendine, who runs a female “mood and hormone” clinic in San Francisco.
Although with such a burden of too much chromosomes, comes a gift called female intuition.
I myself and so many girlfriends have experienced this gift. It’s difficult sometimes to trust it but at most times it is a time savior. It saves you time for staying from your unfaithful boyfriend or apologizing for the accusive suggestion you made when you we’re intoxicated.
How to handle it? Just remember that intuition triggers up if something is not in the obvious. It signals doubt and flags questions. It’s best to face this with a graceful manner by expressing your feelings in a calm mode. Let the other person know how you feel, explain the contributing factors to this feeling and ask direct questions that will settle your intuition (not the ones that trick them to lie, not going to help!). A denial might be given to you or maybe even the truth, either or, process the answer with a clear head and balance out the pros and cons.
So many times, females deal with their intuition with confrontations, weirdly sometimes we think it’s best to play around with our words to trick them in answering our doubts. I say drop the game, express how you feel calmly and ask the unsettling question. The clearer mind you have the easier for you to deal with a answer.
life is short….live, love, breath…..xxx